Dream Rehab

I strongly believe in self determination and that you have the ability to make your future what you want it to be. But there isn't a damn thing you can do to change the actions or decisions of other people involved no matter how hard you try. That doesn't make you a failure, just a dreamer who can't see reality. Sometimes things change and you can't see it, you only see what they were and not what they are. It is hard to let go of hope. I have more experience in this area than I'd like. It is hard to accept the death of your dreams. It hurts a lot, and the bigger the hurt the longer it takes to recover. But you move on because there isn't really any other option. As they say in The Shawshank Redemption, "time to get busy livin, or get busy dyin".